Saturday, September 21, 2013

Life goes on

Life goes on...common statement used by us whenever we don't know why something is happening to us and only to us . Is it meant to happen just like that or it has some purpose to do with our life. At some point of our life we think what is the mission of my life, is it predecided or it is upon us to choose it...the ultimate question why are we here - comes  to you when you seek for  mental peace, which cannot be earned from  physical entities  present around us.  We always set some temporary goal for our life like some of you might be preparing for IIT Jee, CAT etc. We all know that hard work is the key to success and we will achieve our temporary goals by using the  key. After some times when u succeed in achieving them, you gain some mental peace, a sense of completeness and satisfaction. But after some times this wonderful feeling departs from you and you feel emptiness in your life. You search for something new starts. Many of us are lucky to be  able to find something new to work with but some us (we are still lucky) don't find it. This world is full of opportunities -everyone of us new this, but even being aware of the fact some of us find ourselves aimless. Why is this happening with us, what do we seek- we start asking these questions. When this happens with you- then its a call, something is stopping you and wants you to do something else. This is the voice of your soul, your spirit. A call from you destiny.

What is destiny------ Its a question that you start to work as soon as you step into World. We are told form very beginning to work hard for our betterment, to have a better future, so we start our life by setting our aims. Some of us had broader vision and some of us do not. For those who don't have it, get guidance from their guardians. We set our goals in a way to aid a bigger one. One cannot go to a height by jumping, you need a ladder. These goals form our ladder. So we see we start building our stairs form very early.
I ask you to think on these options
   ~*~Are we destined by birth means destiny is predecided.
   ~*~ It is us who decide our destiny. 
   ~*~It is decided by our deeds we do in course of our life.
Reason yourself for the option you choose and hold it. We have heard from our elders, our soul is watching us and it always warn us whenever we do something wrong....or u can say a voice form your heart comes to you. Most of us even experience this, as when ever we do something wrong, a thought of guilt surges in our mind. This shows that a some part of us wants to guide us and save us from going wrong. But we  see some people doing wrong after wrong without feeling any guilt, so is that that there soul doesn't wants them to be good or are they evil by birth. No thats not true, our soul always urge us and try to give guidance but it's on us who will decide whether to take it or not. Science says our mind has two parts(physical basis) a conscious mind and a sub conscious mind. With conscious mind we live in this world. Its the most important part of our physical body. So where does subconscious mind comes into play. Is it something that is of no use ? We  never felt it or we don't know how to access it or to control it. Why is it present or it is like few things our ancestors know how to access  and the technology is long forgotten and over the period of time it has become dormant. Lets say for instant the voice that we hear when we do something wrong or when we suffer emotional break down and seek advice to over come it, this instructions(voice) or useful advice we recieve is from our subconscious mind. Our subconscious mind - that seems to be dormant but is much more active than our conscious mind. You might have heard people saying that they get the feeling of something wrong will happen with them before time. You might also have knowledge about the aura of a being. Aura is a cloak of energy that is around us. scientist say by visualizing aura (through some techniques) one can predict diseases one may get infected  in future.  Our aura is linked to our subconscious mind. Our subconscious mind is the mind of our soul. It registers everything about us irrespective of our state(active, inactive). Our physical mind have limits for instance when we wake up, sometimes we don't remember our dreams because our conscious mind didn't registered them. But after few hours we start recollecting fragments or pieces of our dreams. Sometimes we are unable to recall something old but after a bit of stress we are able to do so. This is all where our subconscious mind works.
Our subconscious mind is as old as this earth may be. It is much more wiser. And so it knows what is good and what is bad for us. It always wants to guide us (not control us) to be in good path. It is the true identity of you, of what you were, what you are and what you will be. 
It knows everything about you, it is the true you. After the birth, from the instant we gain our  consciousness, we find several things learned by us very general in nature for instant the Holy single letter world OM. Why is it so, the sound of some words seems so obvious to us. These words have been attached to our lives not for know but since long back. Its impression on our subconscious mind is deep. Subconscious mind always try to guide our physical mind. It always wants to help us. It tries to take care of us just like our parents do.

The question now arises if our subconscious mind knows everything and has a lot of  experience so why doesn't it helps us frequently??.  For most of the people on earth their subconscious mind is only 1-2% open and there are very few who can have access 7-8% of it. Its a divine gift. It has no relation with how much intelligent you are by virtue of your physical mind. A person might have a very good physical mind (intelligent) but he might not be as much lucky in the case of subconscious mind. Your alertness on the subconscious level is truly a divine's gift you have been gifted with.  But there are ways in which you can improve on this that deals with meditation. 
So now after getting a bit of knowledge of what are we actually we can know come back to the point of one's destiny. We have a bit of insight about our soul, subconscious mind and relation between the two. Every one us is destined to achieve  something and it is for this thing we are born. Our destiny might not be great in others view. Its greatness cannot be imagined by anyone here, it is known only to our soul and to us when we achieve it. You can get a glimpse of its greatness if you think that it is for this thing we are born. Its is the only cause for our birth. So we should always have faith in our self and believe that we all are destined for greatness no matter how worse the conditions are with for the time being. But how do we get to know what is our destiny, we don' t get anything in written, nor a forecast is made. With the passing of time we keep doing our deeds(temporary goals) guided by our guardians or sometimes self motivation. When we do hard work and learns to bear the irony of world with a smile, when we shed our ego, open our mind to the world around us, link yourself to nature, understand the meaning of love, we began to realize our destiny. But getting through all these things is not possible in a short span of time. For some it is quick and for some it takes considerable time. Our temporary goals are our steps toward realization of these virtues. As i said every one is destined for something and  we should be grateful. Since realization of destiny is itself a tougher task, so a question comes is every one able to realize its destiny. 
Everything in this universe works in accordance with the law of cause and effect that is there has to be some cause behind every effect, though it is sometimes that our knowledge isnt powerful to workout the cause, but this is true. Our birth here on earth is out of some cause. There is a true genuine region for our birth just like the reason we have for someone's death. The cause becomes our destiny. Its realization is on us but its not like we are on our own in this quest. If we are genuine from our heart and our path is true, we are always guided by our subconscious mind. When we are in great confusion we are aided and guided. The most important thing is our will, we have always read and heard that where there is a will there's a way and I bet this is 100% true. Our will , how strong is it, is the main factor for the realization of our life's goal. Let anything comes on my way money, love or death-- my will remains the same. People with weak ones keep changing their goals, when ever they find challenging conditions, they try to get away from with some fake reasons. 

So now comes the question "We always find bad guy scoring better than  the good ones", when ever we see bad people we always think,  and put questions in front of nature. Why are they happy even after there deeds are so evil. Is there no one to do justice ? Our questions went unanswered. Lets find this out.  We always find bad people having high respectable position in society, they have huge chunks of money. It seems, they are the happiest indeed worst people on earth. But lets have a break, for a second take away the thought of society and wealth from your mind and now look at yourself and find out what else is left with you, what you care for. You will surely say, your loved ones - father, mother, your lover. And if you go back to times when you were in 5 th standard, money and society means nothing to you. The only thing you cared about was you happiness. Now lets look at the life of these people(bad ones). We see them happy in terms of wealth and social status, but are they satisfied with their loved ones? NO. If you work a bit harder you will find out that they have lot of conflicts in their family, or some problems that can not be answered with money or fame. This are always haunted by fear. Since they have never done good to anyone, so they don't expect it from anyone. Their mind is occupied by fear, jealousy , insecurity and hatred. Chaos! this is what you will find in their mind. Peace is long gone. Remember nature has a strict law, what you sow, you reap.  So whenever you see some bad guys, pray to God, to cure them and give them peace. You might be thinking why i  made a sudden change in the course, its just that this point is very imp. Many good people are misguided from their path by seeing all these fake things.




To be continued.....

Continuing it after 2 years ... 21/09/2013 @ PARIS ...

I always think GOD as person of same mind construct as we are: creative, critic, soft, loving, clever, highly evolved and intellectual or think of him as a great engineer who designed things to have fun and in the process he tried to make something like his own and ended up creating us. 

An Idea from my past experience:

I believe that God is like us or vice versa. Our way of thinking is similar to him. For example like we create things then evolve them, same is with the things in nature they evolve according to their survival needs etc. etc
 I worked at an analysts company, an Indian start up based in Bangalore  My first projects was on Internet Ads business. Idea was to help a client to improve its customer (who gives ad on his website) performance (performance of a customer means their ad coming up on site and getting clicked by site surfers) so client will take money. Customers have prepaid account for their advertisement, which will be debited in case their advertisement shows up and so more the advertisement shows up more the account will be debited . The website has its guidelines define for Ads like relevance of ad matters, color, font and many other metrics. So more you improve in these metrics more you ad will show up on side and site will earn money. Also site AI checks if you advertisements gets clicked by site surfers, the moment it is displayed. So the site kinds of have an history of your Ad performance. So if you are are an advertiser on site(customer) then your do and don'ts with metrics (Color, font etc.) will affect your reward (Ad will be displayed and you will be profited when people know about you) and also  your current scenario will depend on your past deeds. Hence, its kind of a matrix.





                                                        
                                                     
                                       























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